The Active Partner

I once had need of a reading partner in school and then a friend introduced me to the concept of The Active partner. The Active Partner happens to be the partner with drive. The partner who takes it upon himself to remind the other partner of study time, the partner who sorta ensures they study… Continue reading The Active Partner



Good day, hope your all having a nice day, if your not remember what ever you going through shall come to pass. Friendship, friends, you haven’t truly lived life till you have had one of those. Someone who won’t leave you even when they know your going to die. Friends, as a child growing up… Continue reading Friends



Life is designed to try your staying power I often look back and wondered how I made it this far. Make no mistake, it’s not that I didn’t expect to be where I am, no that’s not it. Not that I didn’t plan out every step. Sure I did. I planned every stage also. But… Continue reading HAVE YOU EVER LOST SOMETHING?



The first task of a leader is to define reality. A leader cannot lead others if he cannot lead himself. If a leader is not moved, he cannot move others. If he is not growing himself, he cannot grow others. “Nobody follows a packed bus.” Therefore the first assignment of having the life you want… Continue reading FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT OF LIFE(part II)



Success in life is demanded by everyone but not everyone is working to deserve it. Growing up as a kid, I have often been involved in playground fights. I wish I could say that I wasn’t beaten pretty badly but that would be a lie. I have been sober and calm and got beaten up… Continue reading FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT OF LIFE.


TIME: what matters is only a matter of time.

“to every event in your life, there are times and seasons. no season is permanent” Owk, so you read all nyt But u neva made your O’levels Wat matters is only a matter of tym. You finally had complete papers But Jamb jam you with better ‘NO’ Abeg no myd dem cos Wat matters is… Continue reading TIME: what matters is only a matter of time.



“To get what anything promises, you need to change your perception about that thing” Perception is a powerful thing. It is a way of conceiving something and becoming aware of a thing via the senses. Perception becomes important as it affects how we see a thing which turns around to affect our attitude to that… Continue reading PERCEPTION: YOUR LIFE IS YOUR NUMBER ONE BUSINESS.


Lipstick scandal

Good morning, hope you had a great night. I came off the elevator yesterday and there she was, her smile was like the radiance of the morning sun, she was looking irresistible, she hugged me and it felt cool and was glad I came to work, then she stepped back and went oops I stained… Continue reading Lipstick scandal


Lessons from the devil

Growing up as a christian child, I was always told bible stories, and God always defeated the devil and I would most times hope the devil would just give up, and apologies to God cause he never stood a chance. I think after one has been beaten so many times by one person he should… Continue reading Lessons from the devil


Going back in time

So I guess we all have that moment when we wish we could go back in time, cause a decision we made didn’t turn out right. Oh only if we could have the last five minutes back or even one it would change a lot, make us feel better cause we just made a mistake… Continue reading Going back in time


Random thoughts

So for the past couple of weeks I’ve been through some trainings and I’ve learnt a few things I’d like to share  A car is really only as Good as it’s driver, make sure your driven by someone who can handle and maximize your worth. The world is full of nay sayers but it’s also… Continue reading Random thoughts


Step out

I came out curly haired, wide eyed and with a look of mischief ,That was a big No in the society full of people who followed straight lines, she’ll Change with time they said… So time passed, and I changed, but not into what they wanted for me but into what I loved and filled… Continue reading Step out


Running From My Demons 

Street poet, philosopher, writer and rapper Olamide puts it this way, ” I be bad boy, but I dey go church and I dey try“. One of the greatest complexities in life is being both good and bad, being both light and darkness,  this doesn’t even seem possible cause the presence of light drives out… Continue reading Running From My Demons 

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Abuse – Emotional Abuse 

Photo credit: WordPress They said to me, physical abuse is the worse thing that could happen to a kid, and that’s so true, however when you go through abuse as a kid you have your adult life to deal with it, however when you go through emotional abuse as an adult and don’t even notice… Continue reading Abuse – Emotional Abuse 


Let’s be humans 

Let’s be humans  Its blood that flows through our vains and air through our nostrils  We share the same earth and even though we are not sure how we got here, what’s important is that we are all here now.  We all have brains and hearts, so let’s be humans.  In a world of differences… Continue reading Let’s be humans 


Please allow me to reintroduce myself 

One of the challenges I have with meeting people within my circle, is that of them knowing me once I say my name. Now its not what you think , am not famous or something, but whether it’s home where my folks seem to have a wide reach or school where everyone  talks a lot… Continue reading Please allow me to reintroduce myself 



There is a common phrase that goes thus; ‘am responsible for what I say not what you hear or understand’, though that’s true we only have control over our mouths and not other people’s reasoning units , I have recently discovered another truth, though you may not be responsible for what people hear, that doesn’t… Continue reading Reflections