RELATIONSHIP 101.

A HEART FULL OF HURTS

Today’s thoughts are tomorrow’s actions
Today’s jealousy is tomorrow’s temper tantrum
Today’s bigotry is tomorrow’s hate crime
Today’s anger is tomorrow’s abuse
Today’s lust is tomorrow’s adultery
Today’s greed is tomorrow’s embezzlement
Today’s guilt is tomorrow’s fear.
….max lucado.
Living life with a heart full of hurts is very toxic, what’s more toxic is being in a relationship with one. But often times we find ourselves in this situation, you sit down and all you can remember is how he said this and how she said that and a little while down the thought line your heart is full of trash and all it takes is a little push to tip you over and you unload the trash on anyone.
Today’s thoughts are tomorrow’s actions, what you think goes a long way in determining how you will live and eventually how your life will turn out, so shouldn’t you pay more attention to your thoughts, most people act like they have no control over what they think, we hear things like ‘am in a bad mood’ as if a mood is a place where u work, and not an emotion you permit, or ‘am really impatient’ as if it is a genetic disorder you were born with, you have the sole right to decide what you think and which thoughts get into your heart, different things will try to control your thoughts in the course of your life ; opinions from others, standards set by the community your in, past experiences, friends and family, even things like movies and music, but all these are options presented to you its up to you to decide what to let in and what to keep out, and remember;
above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it..
(prov. 4:23 NIV)
It’s time to carefully consider the type of thoughts you let into your heart.
– are they profitable?
-are they honourable ?
– do they make you appreciate your partner more?
– do they bring you peace?
– do they make you productive ?
– are they worthy of you ?
– are they true ?
– do they build you up?
It’s time to put those thoughts on a scale and take control of your life and relationship, no more wallowing in a pity party of ‘should haves’ and ‘could haves’, shift your focus and watch your life take a new turn.
For love keeps no records of wrongs….
Thank you.

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